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When two become one .... and still don't agree

Oct 18, 2026  •  Mark Torres, Christy Torres

Two imperfect people. One covenant. And a whole lot of dying to self.

This week, Pastor Mark and Chrissy got real about what marriage actually looks like when two selfish people try to build a life together. Not the Disney version -- the real one. The one with dishes in the sink, unspoken wounds, and arguments that are never really about what they seem to be about.

Drawing from James 1:19, Ephesians 4:26-32, and Matthew 16:24, the message was simple but hard: the key to a healthy marriage is not winning the argument. It is learning to die -- to pride, to the need to be right, and to the demand to be understood first. Your spouse is not your enemy. Fight for each other, not against each other.

If your marriage needs hope, this one is for you. Part one is also available on our website: https://vineyardaurora.org/media/sd9c4vt/marriage-covenant-relationship-pt-1


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